Here are the 8 qualities that every girl has and that men
are really looking for in their relationships
1. Cares
unconditionally
It doesn’t matter if you’re the ultimate feminist or super
independent — there’s something inherently rewarding when you truly care for
someone else.
Putting someone else’s well-being above your own doesn’t
mean you have to sacrifice your wants or needs, it means that there is someone
in your life who you’re excited about, who you genuinely believe is the most
special and deserving of your love.
If you really care for your partner, you’ll feel
satisfaction from his happiness as well. Women are naturally compassionate, and
when a man sees just how far your kindness goes, he’ll appreciate the extent of
your selflessness.
2. Understanding
without placing expectations
Most men aren’t great at sharing their inner feelings, but
women are really good at picking up on them regardless. Especially when he
makes himself most vulnerable, she’s there to support him and accept him no
matter what.
Understanding him without placing expectations means that
she can appreciate a guys’ night, doesn’t put demands on him to get a more
high-paying job and knows that the way he unwinds is by watching hours of
sports. She gets him, she’s grateful for this person he is and she finds
fulfillment in knowing every inch of him.
3. Letting him be the gentleman, but stepping up when it’s her turn
Girls like it when the guy plays into the gentlemanly role,
but they won’t hold back from assuming less-traditional gender responsibilities
as well. She wants him to be the man, protect her and possess physical strength
— and it’s important for him to fill this need too.
She also knows, though, when it’s her time to pitch in, like
carrying her own bags through the airport or planning a romantic evening. We’re
able to take a backseat when he wants to show-off his manliness, but we’re also
ready and willing to relieve him of his duties at any moment.
4. Having her own
opinions on things
Nothing is more attractive than a girl who knows her stance
on a topic and is able to eloquently articulate it. If she can teach him
something new, life together will be a lot more interesting.
A real man appreciates a woman who has her own mind and is
confident in her beliefs. It can be as simple as knowing useless facts about
the cytoskeletons of bugs or as complicated as debating stricter gun-control,
either way, she has something to say and it won’t be boring. The most beautiful
part of a woman is what’s inside her head and how she uses it.
5. Putting on the
moves
A woman who knows how to pleasure a man (and vice versa) is
key in any healthy relationship. We’re not suggesting that his satisfaction is
more important than hers — they are equal — but she can get turned on by
turning him on, all on her own.
Remember that line about finding fulfillment from his happiness? That holds true in the bedroom as well. Trust us, if you let him in on what you’re capable of, he’ll always be wanting seconds.
6. Making him feel
like The One
At the end of the day, we all want to feel like we’re extra
special to the someone whom we regard as extra special. He likes that you can
get the attention of other men, but that you don’t need it for personal
validation.
You like being the only girl in the world for him, and he is
even more grateful for that in return. Loving someone who loves you back is the
ultimate compliment. It can’t be bought, it can’t be replicated and it lasts
forever.
7. Looking nice
Girls enjoy dressing up for the men in our lives to take
notice. Whether this means wearing our intimate undergarments or just taking
the extra time to put in our contacts, we’ll take care of ourselves because we
like feeling our best selves around him.
Men can’t resist a girl who is put together and looking
good, even if that’s an easy t-shirt and loose pants.
8. Intriguing without
being unavailable
Men like that we women are complex without being impossible
to figure out. They enjoy taking the time getting to know you by peeling back
all your layers, but they’re frustrated if you’re too overcomplicated.
Women who possess a natural mystery are endearing to curious
men. Your shining personality teaches him how to sparkle on his own — and the
ability to build another person up is one of your most invaluable gifts.
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